•  “Mifala i besfren be samtaem mifala i badfren”

•  Tu risen blong mekem pis wetem olgeta

•  ?Sam yangfala oli talem wanem?

 Ol brata mo sista blong yu oli ‘ol besfren blong yu, be samtaem oli save kam badfren.’ Yu yu lavem olgeta mo oli lavem yu, be samtaem yufala i raorao. Helena we i gat 18 yia, i talem se: “Smol brata blong mi i hambag long mi oltaem. !Hem i save gud olsem wanem blong mekem mi mi kros!”

 Blong stretem sam problem, i nidim nomo blong yufala i toktok gud tugeta. Eksampol:

•   Maet tu brata we tufala i serem wan rum i rao from we tufala i neva save stap wanwan long rum. ?Olsem wanem blong stretem problem ya? Folem advaes blong Luk 6:31, tufala i mas lanem blong givim taem long narawan blong i save stap hem wan samtaem.

•   Maet wan long tufala sista i stap werem klos blong narawan, be i no askem fastaem. ?Olsem wanem blong stretem problem ya? Folem advaes blong 2 Timoti 2:24, tufala i mas tokbaot tugeta, mo putum sam rul blong tufala i folem.

 Samtaem ol problem oli bigwan, mo i save gat nogud frut i kamaot. Tingbaot tu eksampol we Baebol i tokbaot:

•   Miriam mo Eron, tufala i jalus long brata blong tufala, Moses. Ridim stori ya long Namba 12:1-15, mo makem ol nogud frut we i kamaot. Nao tingbaot se: ‘?Mi mas mekem wanem blong mi no jalus long brata o sista blong mi?’

•   Ken i kros long brata blong hem Ebel, gogo i kilim Ebel i ded. Ridim stori ya long Jenesis 4:1-12. Nao tingbaot se: ‘?Olsem wanem mi save kontrolem mi wan, taem mi kros long brata o sista blong mi?’

 Nating se i had blong joen gud wetem ol brata mo sista blong yu, be i gat tu risen blong traehad.

1.   Soemaot se yu bigman long tingting blong yu. Yangfala Alex i talem se: “Bifo, mi stap kam kros kwik long tu smol sista blong mi. Naoia mi save stap kwaet mo gat longfala tingting. Ating yumi save talem se mi kam bigman finis.”

    Baebol i talem se: “Man we i no save kros kwik, hem i gat fasin luksave, be man we i no gat longfala tingting, i stap soemaot ol krangke fasin blong hem.”—Ol Proveb 14:29.

2.   Gudfala trening blong fiuja. Sipos yu kam kros oltaem from ol smosmol samting we ol brata mo sista blong yu oli mekem, ?olsem wanem long hasban o waef blong yu taem bambae yu mared, o olgeta we yu wok wetem olgeta, o bos blong yu, o eni narafala man o woman?

    Samting we i save hapen: Long fiuja, yu mas naf blong toktok gud wetem ol narafala blong yu save fren gud wetem olgeta. Insaed long famle nao i beswan ples blong lanem blong toktok gud tugeta.

    Baebol i talem se: “Sipos i gat rod, yufala i mas mekem bes blong yufala blong yufala i gat pis.”—Rom 12:18.

 ?Yu nidim help blong stretem wan problem wetem brata o sista blong yu? Sipos yes, ridim “?Sam yangfala oli talem wanem?” mo biaen lukluk Pepa Blong Fulumap we i joen wetem haf ya, nem blong hem ”Fren Gud Wetem Ol Brata Mo Sista Blong Yu.”