Bunji bwamikwasyi ilijisi milawo, ambweni mbuli milawo iijatikizya ciindi ncobeelede kusika aŋanda bana, ciindi ncobeelede kutola kubelesya mafooni, makkompyuta, amatabbuleti, alimwi ambobeelede kubeendelezya bamwi.

 Ino mbuti kuti mwatyola mulawo wabazyali? Tamukonzyi kucinca cakacitika, pele kuli ncomukonzya kucita kutegwa zintu zitaindili kubija. Cibalo eeci cilamugwasya kuzyiba ncomukonzya kucita.

•  Ncomuteelede kucita

•  Nzila mbotu

•  Nzyobaamba beenzinyoko

•   Ikuti bazyali tiibazyiba kuti mwatyola mulawo, mulakonzya kusunkwa kusisa ncomwacita.

•   Ikuti tiibazyiba kuti mwatyola mulawo, mulakonzya kusunkwa kupa twaambo twakulitamizya naa kupa bamwi mulandu.

 Tamweelede kusala kucita zyeezyi zyaambwa atala aawa. Nkaambo nzi? Akaambo kakuti kusisa cacitika naa kupa twaambo twakulitamizya nkutasima. Citondezya buyo bazyali banu kuti tamunakomena.

 “Kubeja taili nzila mbotu pe. Mukuya kwaciindi, kasimpe kayooyubunuka, alimwi cisubulo cinooli cipati kwiinda ceeco ncomwakali kunoopegwa kuti nomwakaamba masimpe kumatalikilo.”—Diana.

•   Amuzumine ncomwacita. Bbaibbele lyaamba kuti: “Ooyo uusisa zinyonyoono zyakwe takoozwidilila pe.” (Tusimpi 28:13) Bazyali banu balizyi kuti tamulondokede. Nokuba boobo bayanda kuti kamusyomeka.

   “Bazyali banu banoomulekelela kuti kamwaamba masimpe, alimwi bayoomusyoma kapati.”—Olivia.

•   Amulilekelele. Bbaibbele lyaamba kuti: “Amulicesye.” (1 Petro 5:5) Muyandika kulicesya kutegwa mwaambe kuti “amundilekelele” kakunyina kupa twaambo twakulitamizya.

   “Bantu ibajisi cilengwa cakupa twaambo twakulitamizya, asyoonto-syoonto balacileka kulimvwa bubi ciindi nobacita cibi. Mukuya kwaciindi, tabacinoolimvwi bubi ciindi nobacita citaluzi.”—Heather.

•    Amuzumine cisubulo cikonzya kuba kuti mwalubizya. Bbaibbele lyaamba kuti: “Kamumvwa kulaigwa.” (Tusimpi 8:33) Amweelebe kutongooka, alimwi amuzumine kusubulwa munzila iili yoonse njobayanda bazyali banu.

   “Ikuti mwaciindizya kutongooka, acalo cisubulo ciyakwiindila buya kucisa. Amulutambule lulayo akutabikkila maano kuli nzyomwasweekelwa.”—Jason.

•   Amubelekele kuti batalike kumusyoma alimwi. Bbaibbele lyaamba kuti: ‘Amusamunune buntu bwanu bwakaindi oobo bweendelana abukkale bwanu bwakaindi.’ (Baefeso 4:22) Amuzumanane kucita zibotu kutegwa bazyali banu batalike kumusyoma alimwi.

   “Ikuti lyoonse kamusala cabusongo alimwi akubatondezya bazyali banu kuti tamukaciinduluki ncomwalubizya, bayootalika kumusyoma alimwi.”—Karen.

 Muzeezo: Amucite zinji kwiinda alizyeezyo nzyobamwaambila kutegwa kabamusyoma. Mucikozyanyo, ciindi ciboola mwaakuzwa aŋanda, amukabazyibye bazyali banu kuti lino muli munzila kujokela kuŋanda, nokuba kuti tamumukide pe. Eeci ciyoobagwasya kuzyiba kuti muyanda kuti batalike kumusyoma alimwi.’