UYehova ufuna ‘sinyaniseke yaye sithembeke.’ (INdumiso 31:23) Oku kubaluleke nangakumbi emtshatweni wakho, kuba ngaphandle kokunyaniseka aninakuthembana. Yaye ukuthembana kuyimfuneko ukuze uthando luhlale lukho.

Namhlanje, ukunyaniseka emitshatweni kunqabile. Ukuze uwukhusele umtshato wakho, kulungele ukwenza ezi zinto zimbini.

OKUFUNDISWA YIBHAYIBHILE: ‘Qinisekani ngezinto ezibaluleke ngakumbi.’ (Filipi 1:10) Umtshato wenu yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini. Ngoko ufanele ubekwe kwindawo yokuqala.

UYehova ufuna ukuba uhoye iqabane lakho nize ‘nidle ubomi’ kunye. (INtshumayeli 9:9) Uyenze yacaca into yokuba ufanele ulikhathalele iqabane lakho, uze wenze nonwabe. (1 Korinte 10:24) Lenze iqabane lakho libone ukuba uyalithanda yaye ulixabisile.

OKO UNOKUKWENZA:

• Qiniseka ukuba uchitha ixesha neqabane lakho njengoko ubonisa indlela olithanda ngayo

• Cinga “ngani” kunokucinga “ngawe”

OKO KUFUNDISWA YIBHAYIBHILE: “Wonk’ ubani oqhubeka ekhangela umfazi ngokokude amkhanuke sele emkrexezile entliziyweni yakhe.” (Mateyu 5:28) Ukuba umntu uqhubeka ecinga ngamanyala, akanyanisekanga kwiqabane lakhe.

UYehova uthi umele ‘ulondoloze intliziyo yakho.’ (IMizekeliso 4:23; Yeremiya 17:9) Ukuze ukwenze oku, sukujonga yonk’ into le. (Mateyu 5:29, 30) Landela umzekelo kasolusapho uYobhi, owenza umnqophiso namehlo akhe wokungaze ajonge ibhinqa ngeliso elirhalayo. (Yobhi 31:1) Zixelele ukuba soze uyibukele iphonografi. Yaye kulumkele ukuqhelana kakhulu nomntu ongeloqabane lakho ude umncwase.

OKO UNOKUKWENZA:

• Yenze icace kwabanye into yokuba uzinikele kwiqabane lakho.

• Jonga indlela iqabane lakho elivakalelwa ngayo, uze ngoko nangoko ubuphelise ubuhlobo obulenza lizive lingonwabanga