Rhanga hi ku kuma nkarhi lowu faneleke. Wu nga va wihi nkarhi lowu faneleke?

 Tivutise leswaku loko a ku ri wena, xana a wu ta rhandza ku ma twisa ku yini mahungu yo tano? (Matewu 7:12) Xana a wu ta tsakela ku ma twa exikarhi ka vanhu? Nikatsongo.

 Handle ka loko swiyimo swi boha leswaku u endla tano, swi ta va swi bihile ku byela munhu hi riqingho kumbe hi muchini lowu hlamulaka riqingho, hi sms kumbe hi email leswaku mi tshikana. Ku ri na sweswo, hlawula nkarhi ni ndhawu leyinene leyi nga ta mi pfumelela leswaku mi bula hi mhaka leyi yo tika.

 U fanele u endla yini loko se ku ri nkarhi wa leswaku u n’wi byela? Muapostola Pawulo u khutaze Vakreste leswaku va ‘byelana ntiyiso.’—Vaefesa 4:25.

 Ndlela yo antswa hileswaku u anakanyela kambe u va ni xivindzi. Swi veke erivaleni leswaku ha yini u vona leswaku vuxaka bya n’wina a ku na laha byi yaka kona.

 A swi kali swi lava leswaku u xaxameta swihoxo swin’wana ni swin’wana leswi a swi endleke kumbe u n’wi byela xin’wana ni xin’wana lexi u xi solaka eka yena. Entiyisweni, ematshan’weni yo vula u ku, “Xihoxo xa wena hi lexi” kumbe “A wu tiyimiselanga ku endla leswi,” swa antswa ku vula ndlela leyi u titwaka ha yona—“Ndzi lava munhu la . . .” kumbe “Ndzi anakanya leswaku hi tshikana hikwalaho ka. . .”

 Lowu a hi nkarhi wa ku n’wi pfumelela leswaku a ku cincisa xiboho xa wena kumbe u pfumelelana ni ndlela leyi a titwaka ha yona. Tsundzuka leswaku u hlawule ku n’wi tshika hikwalaho ka xivangelo lexi twalaka. Hikwalaho tivonele leswaku a nga tirhisi mano yo karhi leswaku a ringeta ku cinca ndlela leyi u titwaka ha yona. Nhwanyana un’wana la vuriwaka Lori u ri: “Endzhaku ka loko hi tshikanile ni jaha ra mina, ri sungule ku endla onge ri ni gome. Ndzi anakanya leswaku ri endle tano leswaku ndzi ri twela vusiwana. Ndzi ri twerile. Kambe a ndzi pfumelanga leswaku sweswo swi cinca xiboho xa mina.” Ku fana na Lori, tiva leswi u swi lavaka. Namarhela xiboho lexi u xi endleke. E-e wa wena a a ve e-e.—Yakobo 5:12.