UJehova ufuna “sithande umusa [sazise ukwethembeka].” (Mika 6:8) Lokhu kubaluleke ngokukhethekile emshadweni wakho, ngoba ngaphandle kokwethembeka akukho ukwethembana. Kanti ukwethembana kubalulekile ukuze uthando lukhule.

Namuhla, ukwethembeka emshadweni kuya kuphela. Ukuze uvikele umshado wakho, kumelwe uzimisele ukwenza izinto ezimbili.

OKUSHIWO YIBHAYIBHELI: ‘Qiniseka ngezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu.’ (Filipi 1:10) Umshado wakho uphakathi kwezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni kwakho. Kuyafaneleka ukuba uze kuqala.

UJehova ufuna ukuba unake umuntu oshade naye futhi ‘ujabulele ukuphila’ naye. (UmShumayeli 9:9) Ukwenza kucace ukuthi akufanele nanini ungamnaki, kodwa kunalokho nobabili kufanele nifune izindlela zokujabulisana. (1 Korinte 10:24) Yenza umyeni wakho noma umkakho azizwe ethandwa futhi ekhethekile.

ONGAKWENZA:

• Qiniseka ukuthi njalo nichitha isikhathi nindawonye, leso sikhathi ungasixubi nezinye izinto.

• Cabanga “ngani” kunokuba ucabange “ngawe”

OKUSHIWO YIBHAYIBHELI: “Wonke umuntu oqhubeka ebuka owesifazane aze amkhanuke, usephingile naye kakade enhliziyweni yakhe.” (Mathewu 5:28) Uma umuntu eqhubeka ecabanga ngezinto ezonakele, ngomqondo othile usuke engathembeki kwashade naye.

UJehova uthi kufanele ‘uqaphe inhliziyo yakho.’ (IzAga 4:23; Jeremiya 17:9) Ukuze wenze kanjalo, kumelwe uqaphe amehlo akho. (Mathewu 5:29, 30) Landela isibonelo senzalamizi uJobe, owenza isivumelwano namehlo akhe sokuba angambuki omunye umuntu wesifazane ngokumkhanuka. (Jobe 31:1) Zimisele ukuba ungazibuki nanini izithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Zimisele nokugwema ukuthandana nomunye umuntu ongashadile naye.

ONGAKWENZA:

• Kwenze kucace kwabanye ukuthi uzibophezele ngokuphelele kumuntu oshade naye

• Cabangela imizwa yomngane wakho womshado, futhi ubuqede ngokushesha noma yibuphi ubudlelwano obungamenza angajabuli