MARIT
4: Fogivim
MAKIM WANEM SAMTING
Fogivim narapela i makim olsem yu no tingim rong na holim bel kros long rong narapela i mekim. Pasin bilong fogivim narapela i no makim olsem yu no tingim popaia na yu mekim olsem dispela hevi i no bin kamap.
STIATOK BILONG BAIBEL: “Yupela i mas wok yet long karim hevi narapela i putim long yupela na amamas long fogivim narapela, na mekim olsem maski sapos i gat as na wanpela i gat tok long narapela.”—Kolosi 3:13.
“Taim yu laikim wanpela, bai yu no tingim popaia bilong em, bai yu tingim ol samting em i mekim bilong kamap gutpela man o meri.”—Aaron.
WAI NA EM I BIKPELA SAMTING
Sapos yu holim bel kros, dispela inap nogutim helt na tingting bilong yu, na tu, em inap bagarapim marit bilong yu.
“Wanpela taim man bilong mi i tok sori long wanpela samting we i mekim mi bel hevi tru. I hatwok long mi fogivim em. Bihain mi lusim rong bilong em, tasol mi bel hevi olsem mi no bin mekim hariap. Dispela i kamapim hevi we mipela inap daunim na inap bagarapim pasin bilong mipela long pas gut.”—Julia.
SAMTING YU KEN MEKIM
ASKIM YU YET
Taim yu bel hevi long tok o samting poroman marit i mekim, askim yu yet:
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‘Mi save bel hevi kwik?’
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‘Dispela hevi i bikpela tru na poroman marit i mas tok sori long mi, o mi inap lusim tingting tasol long en?’
TOKTOK WANTAIM POROMAN MARIT
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Bihain long hamas minit o aua samting na mipela i fogivim narapela narapela?
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Mipela i ken mekim wanem na bai mipela i hariap long fogivim narapela?
SAMPELA ROT
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Taim yu bel hevi no ken kamapim ol pasin nogut bilong poroman marit.
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Tingim olsem “yumi olgeta i save popaia” na poroman marit bilong yu inap popaia tu.—Jems 3:2.
Em isi long fogivim narapela sapos yutupela wantaim i popaia, tasol i hatwok moa taim wanpela tasol i popaia. Pasin bilong kisim tok sori na fogivim narapela i kamapim pasin daun tru.”—Kimberly.
STIATOK BILONG BAIBEL: “Hariap na stretim tok.”—Matyu 5:25.
Sapos yu holim bel kros, dispela inap nogutim helt na tingting bilong yu, na tu, em inap bagarapim marit bilong yu
