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Mɛni Ji Yehowa Odasefoi Asusumɔ Yɛ Gbalatsemɔ He?

Mɛni Ji Yehowa Odasefoi Asusumɔ Yɛ Gbalatsemɔ He?

Wɔkɛ gbɛtsɔɔmɔ ni Biblia lɛ kɛhã yɛ gbalashihilɛ kɛ gbalatsemɔ he lɛ tsuɔ nii. Nyɔŋmɔ to gbalashihilɛ shishi koni nuu kɛ yoo ahi shi kɛya naanɔ. Nɔ pɛ ni Ŋmalɛ lɛ kɛɛ abaanyɛ adamɔ nɔ atse gbãla ji ajwamaŋbɔɔ.​—Mateo 19:​5, 6, 9.

Ani Odasefoi yeɔ amɛbuaa gbalashihilɛ mli hefatalɔi ni gbãla miihe atse?

Hɛɛ, yɛ gbɛi srɔtoi anɔ:

  • Woji Kɛ Nibii. Akɛ saji babaoo ni baanyɛ aye abua gbalashihilɛ mli hefatalɔi ni kɛ naagbai wuji po miikpe lɛ woɔ wɔwoji kɛ nibii lɛ amli. Akɛ nɔkwɛmɔnɔ lɛ, kwɛmɔ saji ni ji “Hiɛmɔ Ohe Ni Otuu Oha Ogbalashihilɛ Lɛ Mli Daa,” “How to Forgive,” kɛ “Rebuilding Trust in a Marriage.”

  • Kpeei. Wɔsusuɔ Biblia mli ŋaawoi kɛhã gbalashihilɛ ahe kɛ́ wɔtee asafoŋ kpeei, kpokpaa nɔ kpeei, kɛ kpeei wuji.

  • Asafoŋ Onukpai. Asafoŋ onukpai kɛ yelikɛbuamɔ ni sa hãa gbalashihilɛ mli hefatalɔi, amɛgbalaa amɛjwɛŋmɔ kɛyaa ŋmalɛ tamɔ Efesobii 5:​22-​25 lɛ nɔ.

Ani esa akɛ asafoŋ onukpai akpɛlɛ nɔ dani Odasefonyo ko atse ehefatalɔ gbãla?

Dabi. Kɛ́ ehe bahia ni asafoŋ onukpai aye abua gbalashihilɛ mli hefatalɔi kɛtsu naagbai ahe nii po lɛ, onukpai lɛ bɛ hegbɛ akɛ amɛkɛɔ amɛ nɔ ni amɛfee. (Galatiabii 6:5) Kɛ̃lɛ, kɛ́ mɔ ko hala akɛ ebaatse ehefatalɔ gbãla ni jeee akɛ ehefatalɔ lɛ ebɔ ajwamaŋ lɛ, mɔ lɛ nyɛŋ ekɛ mɔ kroko abote gbalashihilɛ mli yɛ ŋmalɛ naa.​—1 Timoteo 3:​1, 5, 12.

Te Odasefoi naa mligbalamɔ amɛhãa tɛŋŋ?

Biblia lɛ woɔ gbalashihilɛ mli hefatalɔi hewalɛ ni amɛfee ekome kɛhi shi kɛ́ nibii eyaaa lɛ jogbaŋŋ bɔ ni amɛkpaa gbɛ po. (1 Korintobii 7:​10-​16) Gbalashihilɛ mli hefatalɔi babaoo baanyɛ atsu amɛnaagbai lɛ ahe nii kɛtsɔ hiɛdɔɔ ni amɛkɛbaasɔle, Biblia shishitoo mlai ni amɛkɛbaatsu nii, kɛ suɔmɔ kpo ni amɛbaajie amɛtsɔɔ amɛhe lɛ nɔ.​—1 Korintobii 13:​4-8; Galatiabii 5:​22.

Kɛ̃lɛ, Kristofoi komɛi kɛ amɛhefatalɔi egbala mli yɛ shihilɛi ni mliwala waa tamɔ nɔ ni nyiɛ sɛɛ nɛɛ eko ni amɛkɛkpe lɛ hewɔ:

  • Eje gbɛ akɛ ekwɛɛɛ eweku lɛ.​—1 Timoteo 5:8.

  • Eyiɔ lɛ musuŋshãa naa.​—Lala 11:5.

  • Eŋmɛɛɛ ehefatalɔ lɛ gbɛ ni ejá Yehowa. Akɛ nɔkwɛmɔnɔ lɛ, hefatalɔ ko ni jeee Odasefonyo lɛ baabɔ mɔdɛŋ koni enyɛ ehefatalɔ ni ji Odasefonyo lɛ nɔ ni eku Nyɔŋmɔ mla mli, ni ekolɛ, hefatalɔ ni anyɛɔ enɔ lɛ baakpɛ eyiŋ akɛ, gbɛ pɛ ni ebaanyɛ etsɔ nɔ ebo “Nyɔŋmɔ moŋ toi akɛ nɔyelɔ fe gbɔmɛi” ji ni ekɛ ehefatalɔ lɛ agbala mli.​—Bɔfoi 5:​29.